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Learn How To Meet Gals
My fellow men ask me about " finding a woman " and "how to meet women " and similar things incessantly .
But honestly the best answer for all of these kind of questions is "experience."
But by now you are saying "but how do I get experience when I don't know where to go or how to meet women?"
You meet women, approach women, and observe women any way you can for as long as it takes to get comfortable with the subject. Then when you are comfortable you date women, date women, date women. It is called serial dating.
And when I wrote my first book, "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year", some people thought I was nuts.
Most importantly, let me explain that I am very big on monogamy and have never cheated on a wife or girlfriend, but when I am between relationships I am equally big on multiple or serial dating.
And I am not talking about people who multiple or serial date their entire lives. Obviously those people have some major relationship problems.
However, serial and multiple dating is not only not necessarily a bad thing, if done with a purpose to learn about the opposite sex, it is a good thing. By heavy and continuous interaction with the opposite sex we can learn about both the opposite sex and about ourselves.
What do you think most parents told their adolescent sons and daughters?
"Don't get too serious with one person. You need to meet and date different people.
It may seem childish, but this teenage advice is what most adults who are dating need to remember.
Most of us adults never truly followed good old mom and dad's advice. We alternatively met someone we kind of liked and hooked up with them and ignored the rest.
Sort of like, we got together with the first acceptable person who showed some real interest in us.
But bear in mind, there is a big difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also regrettably most people commonly continue this pattern of hooking up with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into maturity.
We call this "settling".
We call this "compromising".
We call this all sorts of names years later when we realize we aren't happy.
Most of us didn't realize when we were teenagers that there are all sorts of people in the world - different personalities, different likes and dislikes. We didn't realize that if we met enough people we actually could meet someone who was exactly right for us.
Most of us didn't even fully grasp our own personality and what what would be a good match for us. We based our ideas of what a good match was off of television and movies and magazines. You see most of us just lacked experience with the opposite sex.
The cure is uncomplicated. When you date and meet lots of people, sooner or later, you figure it out for yourself. It's a natural process. You get comfortable with people, you realize that everyone is different, and that different types of people like different types of people. Eventually you figure out what kind of person you are and what kind of people you get along with best.
And lo and behold, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever successfully done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and got a lot of experience.
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